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Impotence – Trouble with the hydraulics

It is estimated that 30% of sexual problems are purely psychological rather than physical. Use Sounds Positive’s hypnotherapy products to reprogramme your brain.

We don’t talk about it.

So we never realise that we’ve all had ‘trouble in the hydraulic department’ at some point in our lives.  And when it happens to us, the vicious cycle begins!!!

Even if the first time a man experiences erectile dysfunction, it is due to physical factors such as illness, alcohol, fatigue etc, it is common for him to start worrying about what will happen the next time he wants to make love. This inevitably causes stress and a tendency to dwell on the possibility of failure in the future, neither of which is conducive to a happy and relaxed sex life.

Furthermore, it can have a devastating effect on self-esteem and confidence.

According to Lysette Offley of Sounds Positive Hypnotherapy, it is estimated that 30% of sexual problems are purely psychological rather than physical. Most are a combination of both. “If you get spontaneous erections in the morning, the likelihood is that, physically, everything’s in working order. It’s always a good idea to check with your doctor, though, just to be sure it’s not a symptom of something else that needs medical attention,” she says.

But if you suspect that the problem is even partially psychological, then you may be very interested in some of the latest discoveries about the brain and how it works because, though hypnotherapy you can access that part of it that’s causing you the anxiety and ‘reprogramme’ it.

Hypnotic relaxation with specific positive suggestions tailored to your own particular situation feels very similar to daydreaming – when you feel very relaxed and comfortable. It’s a very pleasant experience and people often report feeling content and sleepy, calm and positive.

Hypnosis is a rapid, permanent and effective cure for the psychological aspects of impotence because it gives you back the unconscious control you once had, reminding your brain of its former pattern of success of effortlessly achieving and maintaining an erection, while ridding you at the same time, of any anxiety you’ve developed.

There are a couple of ways of using hypnotherapy to help you. One is to have a one-to-one consultation with a qualified clinical hypnotherapist and the other is to use hypnotherapy products at home. Either way, many men have discovered that they needn’t suffer in silence.

They needn’t suffer at all.

See how to get a response different than I’m too tired for sex?

When you hear your lady say she’s too tired to make love, you need to understand that more often than not what she’s really saying is:

* I have given all I’ve got to everyone else and I have nothing else to give.
* I need time for me.
* I want someone to hold me.
* I want someone to talk to me.
* I want someone to be my “nurse” for a little while.
* I need someone to care about “me” for a change.
* I want someone to make me feel better

Now that you understand what she’s really saying, you have a couple of choices to make.  You pick the result you want from the following choices and carry out the instructions:

Result #1:  0% chance of S E X for the next several weeks

Tell her you despise the day you married her and that if there weren’t kids involved, you would dump her in a minute.  Then, ignore her while making it very clear you are extremely mad at her for not putting out.

Result #2:  10% chance of S E X tonight

Turn on your “best-behavior” and tell her you love her and that you understand how she feels.  Ask her if you can get her a cup of hot tea or something.  Then ask her if she would like for you to rub her feet.

The real point is that you are too late.  You didn’t take responsibility for making sure she was turned on and ready by bed time.

That’s right!  As a man, you are the one who needs to take responsibility for turning your lady on so that she is ready for you.

Unfortunately, you may well be too late to change anything for tonight.  But, the good news is that tomorrow is a new day.  Tomorrow, you can cause things to be different.

What are you going to do to turn your wife on?  What needs to happen so that you get a different response besides I’m too tired?from her?

When you come up with the answers, then your job is to implement!

How To Solve Male Impotence Naturally

Male impotence affects a small portion of the population, about 10% or so.  But until just recently those figures were largely kept quiet due to embarrassment or

reluctance to admit a problem exists.  It’s a guy thing of course.

There is a natural solution to male impotence and we will look at that in a moment.  Even so, why is impotence treatment information kept under wraps?  This might

help answer that question.

Prescription medications are big business and many Doctors are given incentives to promote the latest prescriptions for impotence treatment.  Remember when

Viagra was hot?  Doctors offices were stocked with those four pill sample packs, and they were giving them out like candy.  Of course all the latest jokes then were

about dirty old men and disgruntled wives.  The push for Viagra, Levitra, Cialis and the generic versions of those drugs was on.

So why has a a natural solution to male impotence never become popular before this?

1) No Profit
2) No Profitability
3) No Profits

Basically, all alternative health solutions face the same problem. No interest from big business and minimal support from Doctors trained in the Western Doctrine.

Fact:

A majority of male impotence problems are easily solved with a simple exercise. This impotence remedy can be performed almost anywhere and any time of day.

On a Personal Level:

One incident of male impotence can create concern.  Repeat incidents wear down your confidence, create performance anxiety, depression, etc which can cause a

viscous cycle.  Few men seek out alternatives to male impotence prescriptions, but because you’re reading this article you’re in the group who would rather avoid

possible side effects, dependency, and the prohibitive costs of prescriptions!

A Word of Caution:

If your problem stems from an addiction you’ll need to make some difficult decisions and lifestyle changes if sex is important to you.  But typically all that’s needed is a

little effort on your part and a proven program to follow.

Male impotence generally stems from misunderstanding the facts.  If you don’t have any serious physical trauma like diabetic nerve damage or severed muscle, there

is a good chance you can correct the problem quite quickly.

Two Alternatives:

1) Do some research yourself on the PC muscle to understand what it controls and how to strengthen it.

2) Go directly to a proven natural method.  Firm Endeavor is a six week course that has quietly helped hundreds of other men looking for a natural impotence remedy.

How To Easily Reach The G-Spot?

What is this so mysterious g-spot ? Where is it located and how can it be stimulated ? This article gives some answers.

The G-spot, or Grafenberg spot, is certainly the most popular topic, with the penis size, on websites discussing sex issues, male and female health. This spot was named after Ernst Granfeberg, the famous German gynecologist who first described it in 1950, in his paper The Role of Urethra in Female Orgasm. Grafenberg was a German born doctor (Adelebsen 1881 ?New York 1957), of Jewish confession. Arrested by the Nazis in 1937, he escaped in 1940 with the help of friends of the International Society of Sexology, and emigrated to California.

Before trying to reach this spot, we must know where it is located. The g-spot is something like a female prostate located between the pubic bone and the cervix on the top side of vagina. The g-spot is a part of the urethral sponge, a tissue playing a great role during arousal : if correctly stimulated, this area can be very pleasurable, and lead to orgasm during sexual intercourse. Note that other women could also feel the urge to urinate when this spot is stimulated.

Indeed, this urethral tissue or sponge is like a cushion against the pubic bone and the vagina wall, surrounding the urethra. Mainly made of erectile tissue, filled with blood during arousal, it has a compressing effect on the urethra, preventing urination during sex. This tissue also contains the Skene抯 glands, able to produce the famous female ejaculation (usually a fluid of clear color) men are so curious about. Other scientists think the g-spot is not really a physical spot, but more probably the clitoris deepest nerves passing through the urethral tissue and connecting with the spinal column.

An important point is that the fluid produced by the Skene抯 glands during orgasm passes through urethra (as urine does) but must not be considered as urine or as an effect of urinary incontinence. This clear colored fluid is similar to what is produced by the prostate and that is why we can speak about female ejaculation.

The structure of this important tissue also varies during time and after the age of 30, occurring changes make the g-spot easier to reach. This is why women after 30 will be more than probably experiencing the best of their sexual life and pleasures.

But how can men reach this so mysterious spot ? In fact, 3 methods can be applied in order to reach this spot. These methods can be found in sex advices guides on the web.
1.For men having an upward curved penis, the missionary position is the best, because that kind of penis will exert greater pressure on the front wall of the vagina.
2.For men having a downward curved penis, or an uncurved penis, doggy style position is probably more suitable because of the pressure exerted against the front wall by the downward curved penis.
3.With the fingers or the tongue : you must push down on the clitoris and arce the tongue or fingers upwards. Note that fingers or tongue must be at least 1 ?3 inches inside the vagina卻ince the exact distance greatly varies from a person to another… Good luck.

Science has now answered lots of questions concerning this mysterious female area, but female orgasm is and remains a complex phenomenon wherein g-spot plays an important role.