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Why Your Wife Prefers Her Girlfriends Over You?

Many men complain that their wife is never home because she抯 always off running around with her girlfriends.  This article reveals the secret to getting a woman to spend time with her man instead of her girlfriends?

Men come to me all the time complaining about their wife being gone all the time.  They are angry because their wife is consistently one? hanging out with her girlfriends.  To make the problem even worse, they say, these girlfriends are news?  They are bashers?of the highest order.

Want to know what I tell them?

he bad-news girlfriends are doing a better job of meeting your wife needs than you are ?which is why she chooses to hang out with them instead of you.?
It not very pleasant.  It doesn抰 make them feel good.  And, it contains the answer these men need to turn their situation around ?so that their wife wants to hang out with them and have sex with them ?instead of hanging out with the bad-news girlfriends?
The answer is?
a better job at meeting your wife needs than anyone else she knows.?
The man who embraces this philosophy will soon find that his wife spends far, far more time with him than she does anyone else.

Want an easy way to find out how to meet your wife needs better than anyone else?

Ask her this one question:  deep inside of yourself and imagine for a moment that I met and satisfied your every need and desire better than anyone else you know.  What would I be doing??
Whatever it is that she tells you, treat with the UTMOST RESPECT because she will be baring her soul to you.  How you treat her response will either take your marriage and sex-life to never-before-seen heights or it will be the straw-that-broke-the-camels-back.

To get the full scoop on how to meet your wife needs and to get the same kind of sexual response that many other men are getting, go to: www.NymphomaniacWife.com

Try it and see for yourself.

Want More Of The S-Word?

Want more sex?  Send your lady shopping…

Have you ever heard men complaining about women shopping?

Those are the men who don’t get very much “you-know-what” (the S-word).

After I share this little technique with you, you will want your lady to go shopping all the time…

No matter who you are, you have “needs”. Men have their needs and women have their needs. We all know this.

We also know that when these needs are violated, we become very emotional and we start looking for some way to “resolve” and “repair” our violated feelings.

Guess what? Every time your lady goes shopping, her needs are violated. The display dummies are super-thin. The advertising pictures show nothing but exceptionally beautiful ladies. I could go on and on, but the point is, everything that is important to her is “one-upped” when she goes shopping.

Though she’ll probably never say a word and though she may act like she enjoys shopping, she WILL come home with feelings of insecurity and she will be emotionally upset deep down inside.

But, when you meet her at the door and immediately start “repairing” and “resolving” – meeting her needs in other words – it won’t be just a little while and she will be pulling down her … and spreading her …

Go send your wife shopping 🙂

Penis-Size Paranoia

Our contemporary world suggests that a man must have a penis that is between 10 and 20 inches or he is an inferior male who cannot really please a woman….

Introduction

Our contemporary world suggests that a man must have a penis that is between 10 and 20 inches or he is an inferior male who cannot really please a woman. Our world further suggests that unless a man has a penis the size of his forearm or the size of a horse抯 penis, then by default the woman is sexually unhappy and secretly she is longing for a man with a bigger penis.

We could tell you that this is absolutely not true ?but you wouldn抰 believe us?
We could try to tell you not to worry about your penis size ?that it is so far down on a woman抯 list of what is important that it is effectively a complete non-issue卋ut we won抰 because we know you wouldn抰 listen?
The fact is, men are always going to be concerned about the size of their penis?
卻o, all we are hoping to accomplish here is to give you some input and some insight that will hopefully help you overcome your paranoia you have over the size of your penis and help you get on with having a great sex life?
See For Yourself

If you were to watch adult female masturbation videos, such as

?Real Sex Magazine: All Masturbations
?Real Female Masturbation
?100% Masturbation
?Female Masturbation Sensations

You would see girls masturbating solo and the guy doing the movie providing them with vibrators and dildos of all different sizes. Guess what else you would see? You would see these girls reaching right past the big toys and picking up a small one. Guess what else you would see? You would see that these girls stimulating their clitorises and inserting the toys 1 ?2 inches deep.

So let me ask you卛f big and deep were important, why do they pick up the little toys and barely stick them in? In these movies, these girls achieve orgasm after orgasm on little toys that are barely inserted into their vagina.

The point is that big and deep isn抰 important to a woman. You can give your woman orgasm after orgasm ?no matter what the size of your penis is.

It抯 A Matter Of (Her) Anatomy

You see, there is a particularly good reason why these women barely insert the dildos and vibrators into their vaginas.

Sexologists who have spent years researching the female G-Spot have scientifically determined that the G-Spot is located right at the top-front of the vagina in 70% of all women. By top-front, this means that a woman who has learned to control her G-Spot can actually push it outwards to where it is visible when you pull her pussy lips apart. In different words, if a man were to stick his index finger right up to the first joint (about 1 inch) and touch the top of 70% of all women抯 vaginas, he would be touching their G-Spot.

For the remainder of women, these sexologists say the G-Spot is positioned as follows:

?10% – on the top, 2 ?3 inches inside the vagina
?10% – on the top, 3 ?4 inches inside the vagina
?10% – on the top, spread from the front to about 5 inches inside the vagina

This tells us that if all you had was a 3 inch penis, you could easily satisfy 80% of the women in the world.

One Reason Men Are Not Able To Shoot Their Ejaculate

There are two reasons most men don抰 naturally shoot their ejaculate.  I抣l discuss one of those reasons in this article.

The first reason is because of the type of stimulation most men use to achieve orgasm.

A man has two primary approaches to stimulating himself to orgasm.  The first, and most common approach, is focused on prostrate stimulation.  The concept of 損ounding?a woman during intercourse is nothing more than a man stimulating his prostrate.

The second approach to stimulation is focused on penis-head stimulation.

When a man is engaged in sexual intercourse, these two types of stimulation are usually blended together resulting in maximum pleasure. (This accounts for why most men are interested in intercourse over masturbation.)

When masturbating, the vast majority of men achieve orgasm primarily from prostrate stimulation ?even though most of them don抰 directly stimulate their prostrate.

What happens, is that as men stroke their penis shaft and/or their penis head, the majority of them either hit the base of their penis with their hand or they bend their penis, or they jerk on their penis as they stroke, all of which indirectly stimulate the prostrate.  This leads to an orgasm that is based primarily on prostrate stimulation.

Early in a man抯 sexual life, he will typically learn a given set of techniques that will bring him to orgasm.  From then on, for the most part, he will use the same approach for the rest of his life.

For most men, masturbating in a way that stimulates the prostrate is initially more pleasurable and generally leads to orgasm more quickly ?which explains why the majority of men initially learn to reach orgasm based on prostrate-based stimulation ?as young men trying to figure it all out, they are trying to reach orgasm before someone catches them or starts wondering what抯 going on.

And, because most men will tend to use the same technique they learned early on, few will ever experiment with other options.

To prove the sensitivity of prostrate stimulation, try 損ounding?your woman during your next intercourse session (where your pelvic area ?the area surrounding the base of your penis ?is solidly hitting her body ?but don抰 hurt her ?揹oggy?style is a good position for this test) and see how quickly you start to feel those orgasmic feelings climbing.  Then, continue stroking her but do not allow your pelvic area to hit her and notice that the orgasmic feelings either stop climbing or they may even subside slightly.

Now, the reason all of this is important is because there is a significant side-effect with a prostrate-induced orgasm.  When orgasm is achieved through prostrate-based stimulation, the prostrate is so sensitive from the stimulation that the contractions that occur in order to expel semen (called the expulsion stage) are severely hampered.

As a point of comparison, it抯 like tickling a ticklish person until they inadvertently urinate.  They lose the control they normally have over their body functions because of the over-stimulation they feel from the tickling.

In the same way as the tickling analogy, when orgasm is reached by prostrate-based stimulation, your body is hampered in its ability to ejaculate because of the extent of stimulation.

If you would like to see this hampering effect in full force, have your woman masturbate your penis and simultaneously finger your rectum.  As she fingers your rectum, she should focus her anal rubbing motions on the area that is between her finger(s) and your penis (which is where the prostrate is located).

While an orgasm in this fashion is very pleasurable, you will find that when you orgasm, you will have virtually no control over your ejaculation and your sperm will ooze and dribble out of you with even less force than you are used to.  (In the absence of your woman, you can use a vibrator for the same effect.

See how to get a response different than I’m too tired for sex?

When you hear your lady say she’s too tired to make love, you need to understand that more often than not what she’s really saying is:

* I have given all I’ve got to everyone else and I have nothing else to give.
* I need time for me.
* I want someone to hold me.
* I want someone to talk to me.
* I want someone to be my “nurse” for a little while.
* I need someone to care about “me” for a change.
* I want someone to make me feel better

Now that you understand what she’s really saying, you have a couple of choices to make.  You pick the result you want from the following choices and carry out the instructions:

Result #1:  0% chance of S E X for the next several weeks

Tell her you despise the day you married her and that if there weren’t kids involved, you would dump her in a minute.  Then, ignore her while making it very clear you are extremely mad at her for not putting out.

Result #2:  10% chance of S E X tonight

Turn on your “best-behavior” and tell her you love her and that you understand how she feels.  Ask her if you can get her a cup of hot tea or something.  Then ask her if she would like for you to rub her feet.

The real point is that you are too late.  You didn’t take responsibility for making sure she was turned on and ready by bed time.

That’s right!  As a man, you are the one who needs to take responsibility for turning your lady on so that she is ready for you.

Unfortunately, you may well be too late to change anything for tonight.  But, the good news is that tomorrow is a new day.  Tomorrow, you can cause things to be different.

What are you going to do to turn your wife on?  What needs to happen so that you get a different response besides I’m too tired?from her?

When you come up with the answers, then your job is to implement!

A Review of Erectile Dysfunction

Despite years of progress and accumulated changes in the world view of each generation, it is safe to say that sexual dysfunctions are still a sensitive issue for men. Shame and embarrassment made sexual dysfunction a taboo subject in polite company for a long time, which gave it a prominent position in the urban legends and endorsed dozens of folk remedies of doubtful effectiveness. Modern times have brought a certain change of attitude, but the issue is still a touchy one and best left alone. The launching of Viagra in the ?0s and the huge marketing campaign has shed some light on erectile dysfunction, since men who found a solution in these pills are no longer ashamed to admit their past problems.

Erectile dysfunctions have both physiological and psychological causes. Many such causes are medically reversible, others are not. Any condition that interferes with the flow of blood through the body is bound to have a negative impact on a man抯 sex life. Diabetes is a good example of a disease hampering blood flow, as are kidney diseases, chronic alcoholism and multiple sclerosis. Men suffering from heart conditions or high blood pressure know that the drugs they take to avoid strokes are detrimental to what is known as a healthy sex life. Physical injury to the penis, spinal cord, prostate, bladder, pelvis or the nerves and arteries ear the penis and which are responsible for erections can be a factor causing erectile dysfunction.

On the psychological side, depression and the drugs associated with it interfere with erections. The same goes for feelings of anxiety, insecurity, low self-esteem and shame. Stress is another major cause of temporary erectile dysfunction, especially in today抯 world. A history of erectile dysfunction also triggers patterns of depression and inadequacy that lead to further sexual failures. All these physiological and psychological problems are compounded by vices. Heavy consumption of alcohol, tobacco or drugs is extremely bad for the cardiovascular system. Tobacco clogs the arteries and disrupts the flow of blood, while alcohol consumption makes it harder for a man to achieve both erection and orgasm.

Since the issue is very sensitive, it is impossible to know how many men suffer from this dysfunction. It has been estimated that about 5 percent of 40-year-old men and 25 percent of 65-year-old men suffer from erectile dysfunction. The first major step to treating erectile dysfunction is to acknowledge the problem and to seek help. The second major step is to identify which approach suits the patient best. If the problem stems from feelings of depression and stress, then the patient should turn for a while to a life of relaxation, physical activity and socializing. Going to the gym or running in the park is a wonderful way to drive depression away because of both the physical exertion and socializing components involved. Working out is also a good way to strengthen the cardiovascular system and improve blood flow.

If the cause is a disease that hinders the flow of blood, doctors are likely to consider the use of vacuum devices or surgically implanted prostheses in order to achieve erection. People suffering from diabetes have few other options and have to turn to devices. But most people can get by with drugs that promote the flow of blood to the penis. Viagra, Levitra and Cialis are already famous for their effects, although men suffering from heart conditions should see a physician before touching the stuff. Other pills, like ProSolution Pills, are less radical in approach, but nearly as effective as the three brands mentioned above. Those who like a natural solution that has the advantage of originality, can also try penis exercises, like those made popular by the Penis Health program, to stimulate the flow of blood without any drugs or devices.

Buying Lingerie For The Woman In Your Life: How To Shop Online

Looking to buy your significant other lingerie as a gift? You’re a brave man, daring to go where most men抯 knees shake and palms sweat in pure anxiety. Shopping for lingerie doesn’t have to be too frightening. For starters, forget having to walk into an all-too-feminine lingerie store in the mall where it feels like all eyes are on you. Try shopping online and you’ll find the experience to be much less traumatizing. Still, lingerie is a tricky gift, and there are some very useful tips to shopping for lingerie that will help you find the perfect selection for her. Trust me, if you find the right lingerie gift for the woman in your life. . . well, I don’t have to tell you just how rewarding that can be.

First things first: you have to get an idea of what size she is. If you抮e living with your partner, this might be a little easier for you. A little investigating in the top drawer of her dresser can produce a good idea of her size. Don’t let all the numbers and letters confuse you. Bras are sized as a number followed by a letter. Remembering both of these is vital when shopping for lingerie, so write them down if you have to. For panties, chemises, and camisoles, you’ll be looking for numbers and letters as well. Those sized in numbers will be labeled as 5, 6, 7, 8, etc., and those sized in numbers will be labeled S, M, L, XL, etc. If you can’t search her dresser, try going on a shopping trip with her and see what size clothing she buys. If you’ve truly desperate, find a woman you know that’s a similar size to your partner and ask her what you should be looking for. Just get a general idea of her size and this will put you way ahead of the game.

Almost as important as finding something in her size is finding something in her taste. You may think that lingerie is more a gift for you than for her, but you have to remember that when she feels comfortable and sexy, you’ll be the one who reaps the rewards. If she’s more flashy than frilly, go easy on the lacy selections. If she’s usually conservative, don’t try anything way too daring or you may not get the reaction you’ve looking for. Take into account the clothing she usually wears and this may give you some ideas. Does she favor a particular color or style? Is her personality feminine, flirty, or downright sexy? Most likely you will be able to use this information when you shop online for lingerie.

If you抮e still feeling a little confused about finding the right lingerie gift, stick to simple pieces. If you find that the sizing and selection of bra and panty sets is too complicated, try shopping for a simple chemise or babydoll. Women have an eye for detail, so a garment with a little lace or beading around the edges is sure to impress. Fabrics like silk and satin can make any woman feel sexy. Just remember that shopping for a lingerie gift online doesn’t have to be scary or complicated. Take your time and choose something that goes with her personality, and you and l find the end result to be quite pleasurable.

Three Mistakes Trying To Start A Woman’s Sexual Motor

Three common mistakes that men make trying to turn a woman on…

It’s Not In Your Looks

You can have a perfect forehead, chin, smile, and even a perfect pair of dimples but none of these will start a woman’s sexual motor. You can work out at the gym all week long, week after week and look like Mr. Atlas, but you aren’t going to start a woman’s sexual motor with your muscles.

Granted, you might get her attention for a brief moment ?just like any other kind of abnormality she might notice would get her attention ?but your looks won’t turn her sexual motor on. Why? Once a woman decides to enter into a relationship, looks no longer matter to her ?if they ever mattered to her at all.

Now, I’m not dismissing the necessity for neatness, trimness, and cleanliness. These are things a woman expects of a man. But, they are not what start her sexual motor.

It’s Not In What You Have

You can wave big wads of cash around. You can wear Armani suits. You can wear a Rolex. You can drive a super expensive car. You can flaunt any other material possessions in front of a woman and you simply aren’t going to turn her on. (As obvious as this may seem, there are men worldwide trying to capture a woman’s attention by means of their possessions.)

The danger with this approach is that you may trigger her “greed factor” such that she is attracted to you in terms of what she can “get” from you. But, because she’s not being true to herself, sex will be something she despises.

This phenomenon can easily be seen in “marriages” where an attractive young woman is married to an old and wealthy man. Both the man and the woman know that the marriage is based on purely selfish motives and nobody’s sexual motor has ever been started based on selfishness.
It’s Not Your Social Status

Many men mistakenly believe that if they were in a position of prominence, or if they were a celebrity, or if they held some kind of high-profile social rank, that they would then be able to start a woman抯 sexual motor.

And in fact, there are cases where a woman is attracted to a high social status man simply for the attention and prestige that being affiliated with such a man will bring to her.

But once again, this kind of a relationship is founded on shallow and hollow premises. And, as it has been proven again and again, the very thing the woman was attracted to will soon become the thing she despises the most. And when a woman despises, her sexual motor is definitely turned off.

The number of women throughout history who have left high-profile men in favor of a “no-name” man is incalculable. In fact, the tabloid magazines show us this phenomenon on a regular basis – where some starlet has dumped the celebrity she has been dating and is now dating some unknown man who is just short of being down-right ugly.

Why would women do this?

Because the “no-name” guy clearly knows how to start her sexual motor while the prominent guy did not.